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Films worth watching

Six films that will tell you more about long-term relationships than most self-help. Ranked by how often they come up in our staff Slack.

Brief Encounter

Directed by David Lean · 1945

Almost certainly the most British film ever made about almost-love. Whatever you think you know, watch it again with the sound up.

Local pick

45 Years

Directed by Andrew Haigh · 2015

Charlotte Rampling and Tom Courtenay. A long marriage cracks in a single week. Quiet and devastating.

Local pick

Notting Hill

Directed by Roger Michell · 1999

You can argue about whether it is good or bad. Either way, it is the romcom every British relationship has somehow absorbed.

Local pick

Submarine

Directed by Richard Ayoade · 2010

Welsh teenage anxiety in the foreground; the parents' marriage in the background is the real heart of the film.

Local pick

Before Sunset

Directed by Richard Linklater · 2004

Nine years after Sunrise, Jesse and Céline meet in Paris. The eighty-minute conversation that follows is a masterclass in romantic regret.

Global classic

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Directed by Michel Gondry · 2004

Made us think love is what is left after you remove the highlight reel.

Global classic